well, steph’s finally off my server. in a few days, all the server logs for this month will be rotated out, such that when march 1st arrives, the only trace of her life on fojar will be in the log archives. she didn’t even have the courtesy to tell me she’d finalized her transfer. i guess she had to get in some final insult.
— IN OTHER NEWS … —
my band gaida (we’re soon changing our name - these one-word hard-to-spell unpronounceable foreign things are awful) is playing at a huge show on friday! the promoters are now complaining that far too many people are coming for the size of concert hall we’re in (and it’s not that small!) this show’s been getting a lot of radio-advertising, and it’s been in all the local papers.
so, i’d invite you all to come but i don’t know if you’ll be able to fit in the door :)
anyways, here are the facts: it’s a benefit for peace at (i think, i’ll have to double-check tonight) st andrews cathedral on NE 8th and alberta. there are a bunch of big-name folk bands from all countries of origin, and somehow we got in too. there’s a suggested $5 donation.
it’s very exciting, my second “professional musician” gig and already playing to packed halls. if i were anyone else, i might be nervous.. but nah, this is exciting stuff!
— oh! check out these great old photos i found last night: [http://www.fojar.com/~steve/pics/interesting_older_stuff/]
and that’s not the best news of late.. *grinning*
Edit 10/26/2005: Sadly, we no longer control the fojar domain name, so the link to Steve’s photos doesn’t work anymore.
I'm a 30-year-old 
Maybe “she” just found out yesterday that everything was set up, and after all this time she could finally point her sites to different dns servers. And maybe “she” was going to tell you when the everything was updated and insult. Maybe if you weren’t so quick to jump to conclusions and try to find out what’s really going on, you might actually see the good in people.
Would this reply to your public bashing of me be considered an insult too? I’m sorry, but I still refuse to publically humiliate you. I still refuse to speak badly about you to other people. After you broke up with me, i would have thought you might have the decency to do the same.
February 26th, 2003 at 9:41 pm
Actually, from what I can see, Steve’s been exceedingly careful not to bash you in public. If anything, he’s painted a fairly positive picture of you, and hasn’t been petty and tried to place all the blame for on you.
This latest comment was the first negative thing I’ve read about you in any of his posts where he’s mentioned you or your break-up, and it’s a fairly legitimate complaint:
ex: If Scott packed up his websites and pointed his domain names to another server without first telling Steve he was doing so, that would also seem like a bit of an insult, regardless of any other issues the two of them did or didn’t have.
February 27th, 2003 at 10:01 am
Got to concur here. I haven’t heard anything bad about you from Steve either.
February 27th, 2003 at 4:02 pm
He did know I was leaving. He told me to leave. I had no choice. I told him it would be about two weeks (two weeks ago) and the day I found out it was okay for me to switch was the day I switched it (or night I should say). So while I was in classes yesterday, that’s when Steve found out. I’m sorry he didn’t talk to me about it first. What can I say? He should have been expecting it because this was when I told him it would happen.
February 27th, 2003 at 5:34 pm